Distance Connection
I’m a perpetually curious woman—both in-person and with time and space between us. I love feeling into how we can care for our emotional well-being and continue feeling connected and tended to via distance.
To support this, and to serve my own creativity and purpose/s in the world, I have a few digital offerings. (Please note the distinction: If you are not a SWer or in a committed relationship with a SWer, the first category For Clients is for you.)
For Clients: Phone and Video Dates
Phone dates are perfect for new distance-clients who want to get to know me:
30-min phone call: 400
60-min phone call: 600
Let’s share a cup of coffee or glass of wine over video and connect:
30-min video call: 700
60-min video call: 900
For those who don’t want to share phone numbers, Twitter/Instagram DMs or email are also fine.
For these options, fill out the form at the bottom of this page, and we can get started right away! Screening is still required, as always. These packages are to develop or maintain emotional connection, and tend to have more of a sweet/flirty tone than sexual.
Digital and analog forms of payment accepted. Due to the extremity of our current climate, no refunds are offered if you cancel.
I reserve the right to not show my full face in any content. Please do not expect to see my face in any video content, especially if we’ve never met before.
For providers and/or partners of SWers: Guidance Calls
Relationship dynamics are my life-force; they make up everything my soul is here to discover, dive into and experience in this life. One of the most nuanced, complex, delicate and alive spaces in this realm is that of a SWer in partnership. I’d love to meet with you, you and your partner—or, have you and your partner meet with me and my former partner, to continue growing together through whatever challenges/opportunities are arriving for you.
I have been facilitating groups, events, and sacred containers for over a decade, both personally and professionally. There is nothing that brings me home to myself more than being a part of the portal that opens in deep conversation and connection with others. The kind of guidance you can expect from me is that of responsive leadership—I will have a structure for our call and we will set intentions, but I am intent on being responsive and attuned to whatever the moment is calling for.
Some of the modalities, tools and wisdom I source from include: PACT (Stan Tatkin’s work), authentic relating, fem/masc energetics, embodiment/somatic work, non-violent communication, and more.
First discovery call: video/phone session with me (75 mins): 350.
For ongoing support, I offer two packages: Three sessions of 60 mins each: 1,000. Six sessions of 60 mins each: 1,900.
First discovery call with me and my former partner, Roman (75 mins): 500.
For ongoing support, we offer two packages: Three sessions of 60 mins each: 1,400. Six sessions of 60 mins each: 2,700.
If you are a partner of a provider, you are welcome here as well. The support of your partner is paramount here: these kinds of sessions are not meant for any kind of convincing someone to leave SW, or to change what they offer as a companion, etc. Full support and devotion to Love and Truth are what I am here for.
If a group gathering is more what you’re looking for, here is the page for our group, Buoyed (password-protected; DM or email me for access). Roman and I tend to run cycles every six weeks, and once they start they are closed (there are no drop-ins for building safety, trust and consistency).
Post-Dystopian Dream Date
Post-Dystopian Dream Date is a virtual sensual experience for post-strange times.
Think: Long-distance dinner date meets immersive performance meets apocalypse camgirl.
The audience member (you, the client) will:
Enjoy a 75-min curated virtual experience.
Dress as one would for a fine dining date (+ your favorite undergarments). ;)
Be secluded in the sanitized safety of your private space.
Float away on an oxytocin cloud of connection and pleasure.
FAQ
What's the structure of the date?
Act I: We'll connect and share a meal virtually (as such, there are two showings per day: lunch + dinner).
Act II: An artful surprise, just for you (think: burlesque, Tarot, poetry)...
Act III: See aforementioned undergarment recommendation. ;)
Why not make an OnlyFans?
I don’t have plans to make one. I work best individually and personally, and my regular business model is structured toward not just longer dates, but deeper dates. I want to translate that digitally, and I want to continue operating in a personalized “date” model.
Will I see your face?
Regulars I've met and screened will, at my discretion. Otherwise, no. But, if you’ve ever seen a theater production with masked actors and still thought it was fabulous… ;)
Why is this written in theater language?
Because that’s a big part of my civ world, which makes me feel a bit vulnerable to share to be honest! It’s not something I’m co-opting. I believe immersive experiences can be profound and powerful even if they’re from afar, and so that’s what I’m trying to do.
What is the rate of the experience?
This experience has a rate of $1,200. And as with every date offering, rates can be given in both analog and digital formats, but 100% of the rate in this case must be received up front before we begin our digital time together.
If this sounds intriguing, fill out the form below. I’ll be in touch to discuss logistics. Screening will be required, as always.